(Or maybe it's an old one that I've somehow missed? In any case, there's no such thing as a meme -- pass in on.)
Of course you've been following the Kathy Sierra business. In case you haven't: a blogger who has received fantastically perverted sexual death threats, accompanied by publication of her address and social security number, and being one of those Weaker Vessels, has got all upset about it, and has been instructed by Kos to stop taking herself so seriously, because after all you get lotsa nasty mail when you post about hotly controversial matters, like, in her case, computer program design. In the Pharyngula thread about it, this has popped up twice, seemingly independently:
If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. Then go back and get me a sandwich, dammit.